If it wasn't for my dude friend I wouldn't know exactly how obsessed people are with what I'm doing. He's told me many conversations he's had with people who want to know what's going on with us.
There are very few people who I tell what's actually going on in my life. Most of them I've met through blogging. I just don't understand why certain people want to know what I'm doing in my life just so they can turn around and gossip about it.
I'm 21 years old. I'm single. Yes, I'm obviously going to go out with friends, go on dates and whatever else I want to do. Just because I go out with a guy doesn't mean anything more than I went out with a guy. It frustrates me that two guys I've gone out with had to deal with the questioning. Then it brings up the whole "what are we" conversation way before that conversation should ever happen.
Sometimes these people will come to me and ask me if I'm dating anyone. I make it pretty clear that they're not going to get details, which is probably why they then go to the dude. It just amazes me, I've never been so concerned with someone else's life.
Have any of you dealt with people who are too concerned with your personal business? How did you deal with it?