Wednesday, July 17, 2013

You think you know...

I'm always amused by what people think they know about me based off of something I say or post online. You may follow me on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and even my blog, but I will promise you that you don't know everything. I may be open about a lot of things, but there are plenty of things I don't talk about.

I don't mind when someone contacts me to ask about something or to see if I'm okay. I have opened up to a few people about everything going on in my life and there were plenty of things they misunderstood from my posts, tweets and whatever else. There were also things they had no idea about.

Please don't assume anything about me or my life. I have had many people in real life read things I've posted and assumed they knew everything. However, most of them assume many different things.

For example; I broke up with LBZ, LBZ broke up with me, I'm pregnant, I had an abortion, I had a miscarriage, I'm seeing other people, I'm partying non-stop,  I have an eating disorder and the list seriously goes on and on.

Last night I send out a Snapchat to a few people with my middle finger up and it say "LOL @ dudes who don't mention their pregnant girlfriends" I was thinking people would assume I was talking to someone else who didn't mention their pregnant girlfriend, which obviously I'm not. It was about a distant friend. However, I didn't expect to wake up with 15 texts asking if I was pregnant.

People see things the way they want to. I'll let them. I don't need to prove anything to anyone. I don't need to act differently or say things in order to clear things up for people who are just looking for something to use in order to judge. 

I decided to put this on my blog instead of on another social networking site because I really don't care to confront those people who just assume thing. I have nothing to prove. I don't need to explain myself to people that just want to be in on any drama going on in my life. I know that my blog readers either support me in anything I'm going through or they'll reach out and contact me to see what's going on. As always, I'm so grateful for the people I've met through blogging. Some of you have no idea how much you've helped me through so many different situations. Honestly, thank you all so much.


  1. love your blog... people are always going to talk crap because they have nothing better to do! keep your head up! new follower :)


  2. people always always always find something to talk about, make up whatever. Its sad really.

  3. Hang in there girl. I used to worry myself to death about how people saw me or what they thought of me. But I have been through so much and learned some hard life lessons and now the only person's opinion that matters to me is my own. This quote really is true: “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” :))


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