I had a post planned for today. I decided against it.
I noticed that many bloggers are going to be silent today.
I considered not saying a word out of fear for the negative comments I’ll probably receive.
You may have read my post on Friday about the tragedy that still has me heart broken..
I have been praying non-stop for them. I’ve been crying daily.
Silence to me means not speaking.
I think that we should be speaking.
But, of course we should also be honoring the victims.
A moment of silence and a day of not speaking are so different to me.
If you read my post I linked to above, you’ll understand why I don’t believe silence is the answer.
I’ve had to take legal action against someone because of death threats they had against me.
I was stalked. I was terrified. All of my friends left my side. They didn’t want to speak up.
They didn’t want to be involved. They all felt it wasn’t their place to say anything.
4 police reports, 12 voicemails, 387 e-mails, 5 pages of tweets and 83 fb messages later..
I finally was able to get a restraining order. After a month of fearing for my life every second.
We found out later had other people brought threats to the police something more could have been done.
Today, that person who followed me everywhere I went, waited outside my house, threatened me so badly that I truly was fearful of WHEN I was going to be killed, threatened anyone who talked to me.. the person who for a year had a restraining order against them and wasn’t legally allowed to purchase a gun.. that person can now own a gun. Legally.
It’s not right and it’s not fair.
I apologize to any blogger who is offended by my choice of not being silent today.
I am not preaching gun control. I am not preaching any political issues.
All that I am saying is that we need to be able to stand up and voice our opinions.
No family should EVER be put through what these families are going through.
But, we live in a world were there sadly are people who do evil things like this.
I have been taking time every single day for these victims and their families.
Respecting them and honoring them is something we all should be doing. Every day.
But, that sometimes that requires you not to be silent.
Please, please, please.. don’t jump down my throat about this.
I respect your decision to be silent today for the reason you choose.
Please, respect my decision to share my thoughts on this.
I understand that as a blogger I shouldn’t be talking today.
I should be silent because silence is a way to show we have respect.
I pray every day and night. My heart breaks more and more each day.
I like to think that one day people won’t be scared to get involved.
One day people will realize that sometime respecting someone means using your voice.
Below I will post the day of silence post everyone else will be posting.
I think it’s very important that we donate and so whatever we can to help these families.
On Tuesday, December 18th, there will be a blogger day of silence. We will post the button and that's it. Please try to not post anything else that day if possible.
We are also raising money that will go to an organization in the memory of this tragedy. The organization is called The Newtown Family Youth and Family Services.
Here is the official description of the support service we are donating to:
"Newtown Youth and Family Services, Inc. is a licensed, non-profit, mental health clinic
and youth services bureau dedicated to helping children and families achieve their
highest potential. NYFS provides programs, services, activities, counseling, support
groups and education throughout the Greater Newtown area.
ANY DONATIONS MADE TO NEWTOWN YOUTH AND FAMILY SERVICES WILL BE DONATED DIRECTLY TO THOSE EFFECTED BY THE SANDY HOOK ELEMENTARY SCHOOL SHOOTING."
Please visit THIS PAGE to make your donation.
We can't imagine how they must be feeling, especially this close to the holidays. We would love for you to spread the word on your own blog, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Let's make a difference and use blogging in a positive way.
Thank you in advance for participating.
The Blog World